Girls' guide to life: 10 golden rules for surviving the decades ahead

Author and editor Nicholas Coleridge with daughter Sophie.

We like all of Nicholas's observations and wisdom - perhaps these were the best.
"I've noticed that people with a sense of humour invariably survive better than neurotic, perpetually anxious ones.

Marry someone nice
Another crucially important one. Only marry nice men who are going to be kind. It's fine to have dangerous, unpleasant, unreliable boyfriends — by all means have several at university — but don't actually marry them.

Never marry men who eat wine glasses as an after-dinner stunt or have a crazy gleam of madness in their eyes. Because probably it is madness, and it's seldom a long-term good bet."

Extracted from a speech to leaving girls at Queen Margaret's School, York. Nicholas Coleridge is managing director of Condé Nast magazines. His novel Deadly Sins is published by Orion (£12.99).
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Saving "The Chap"

One of our favourite magazines, The Chap, was recently in a spot of difficulty. But friends rallied round - read about it here, and join the campaign!

Welcome to Hedgelink

Everyone is worried about the economy - banks and hedge funds; we turn for some relief to the enduring beauty of hedge banks and hedge rows.
All About Hedges
Welcome to hedgelink. The first place to look for information on the UK's native hedges, hedgerow conservation and hedge management.
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Still yearning for green? Visit Linnette Applegate's blog Toddington Manor.
Linette has created some garden design software - and it is lovely work! She offers samples and free downloads
which are wonderful in themselves, and the software is superb.